We're frequently motivated to shoot for balance within our lives, as though it were some thing we required to catch, just like an elusive prey, always ducking out of sight, just as we get within reach.
In the accustomed child's game "Tag", if I'm the very last individual to say "Not it!", it then becomes my aim to catch another person in order not to be it anymore. Well, what goes on when we are "it"? Everyone else goes out. And when we run after after them, they run around just like maniacs attempting not to get captured. That's the nature of the game, right?
Well, consider for just a moment what would take place whenever we were playing tag and I were it, and I also made my move to chase and then just lay out on to the floor? Immediately you'd recognize I was no longer pursuing, and you would likely stop running, you could possibly look at the others and shrug. One might say, "What's up with her? Hey, are you alright?" If I lay there, long and still enough, sooner or later you'd start to come closer, warily in the beginning, however you would come. Perhaps, among you would be so concerned that I had experienced some physical trauma you would bend down to check my vitals. And then, I'd nab you! Ha! Well, you might say, "That's cheating!", and you could well be right, regarding the principles of Tag.
You might recall a time from your youth whenever you set your sights on the boy or girl who hit your fancy. If you knew what you were doing, you played it cool, dropping subtle hints here and there, waiting with consideration to see if you had piqued the interest of your intended, permitting her or him to come to you. Many of us, however, were not patient enough for that strategy, in the game of love, and we laid chase, in hot pursuit of our heart's desire. I am not sure about you, however when I employed that tactic, inevitably, my crush went running in the opposite direction.
That's why, whenever we run after or even do something, the effects is always that it's something that we lack. If we lay chase, no matter what it is we're after is going to run away. This is the nature of predator and prey.
In the accustomed child's game "Tag", if I'm the very last individual to say "Not it!", it then becomes my aim to catch another person in order not to be it anymore. Well, what goes on when we are "it"? Everyone else goes out. And when we run after after them, they run around just like maniacs attempting not to get captured. That's the nature of the game, right?
Well, consider for just a moment what would take place whenever we were playing tag and I were it, and I also made my move to chase and then just lay out on to the floor? Immediately you'd recognize I was no longer pursuing, and you would likely stop running, you could possibly look at the others and shrug. One might say, "What's up with her? Hey, are you alright?" If I lay there, long and still enough, sooner or later you'd start to come closer, warily in the beginning, however you would come. Perhaps, among you would be so concerned that I had experienced some physical trauma you would bend down to check my vitals. And then, I'd nab you! Ha! Well, you might say, "That's cheating!", and you could well be right, regarding the principles of Tag.
You might recall a time from your youth whenever you set your sights on the boy or girl who hit your fancy. If you knew what you were doing, you played it cool, dropping subtle hints here and there, waiting with consideration to see if you had piqued the interest of your intended, permitting her or him to come to you. Many of us, however, were not patient enough for that strategy, in the game of love, and we laid chase, in hot pursuit of our heart's desire. I am not sure about you, however when I employed that tactic, inevitably, my crush went running in the opposite direction.
That's why, whenever we run after or even do something, the effects is always that it's something that we lack. If we lay chase, no matter what it is we're after is going to run away. This is the nature of predator and prey.
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As we see in the game of love, or perhaps tag, if we become the aggressor, when we're "it" our quarry, or our goal high-tails it for the hills. Reiki Master